You too can achieve the mind-blowing and toe-curling sexual pleasure you see in the movies, if you know what you’re doing!
Some women find it difficult to have an orgasm (and competing with what you see on the big screen doesn’t help your efforts!). If you are one of them, you can learn learn how to make it happen by trying the following:
- Locate your G-spot
Relying on someone to find where your G-Spot is can lead to so many disappointments! Learn your body and find out where it is, so that you can teach your partner how they can find it. Try different sexual positions to help (doggy style is one position that enhances G-spot sensation). For practical purposes, you can find this ridged area of tissue about two to three inches inside your vagina on the top.
- Give you clitoris some love
Orgasms are seldom achieved through deep penetration on your lady parts and the clitoral orgasm is the most common way to get there. Experiment with fingers, your partner’s mouth and even a toy to make you say “O!”
- Find your favourite sex position
Your favourite position can make it easier for you to relax and focus on the orgasm you desire. Yes, there is more than one position!
- Avoid alcohol
Alcohol is a suppressant and can decrease your libido as well as your physiological arousal.
- Talk to your partner
Sometimes all it takes is communication! Be honest and open with your partner about your needs to help you get the sexual climax you desire.